Take action before thinking and worrying something
Do you start moving on to your project right after everything is ready to start perfectly?A lot of people use too much time for preparation. Why do you think you must be in your best condition to start something. Why should you need to make sure what has been already explained again?
If you want to stop and be worried about something all you need to do is to do something which has something to do with what you're worried about anyhow. Not taking action and stopping to be worried and think about something is disadvantageous to your time left. If you regard thinking as very important thing for you to look back to get the matters you should examine and review from a critical viewpoint, that totally makes sense because it will directly connect to what you try to do.
But I think 80 per cent or more people are worried about what they need to do without failure so they end up looking for better and smarter way to launch their project than taking essential action which is not smart to connect to their results.
To be frank, for me, thinking itself is "escape". It is actually same thing that a nasty boss preaches at you with never-give-up spirit without suggesting definite solution so using too much time for thinking probably changes yourself into such a man as amount of time using your mouth is much more than that of taking action.
You should have courage to have start-now spirit even unless everything is ready for start. Do it right now anyhow.
You may be going to be injured with your challenge. Unless you start running you can avoid any trouble by tumbling down but you will lose your opportunities to learn something by failure and things will not be going better than when you stop being worried about something instead. Sometimes a fear and an anxiety hold sway over your mind when you lose track of your goal.
All you need to do is to believe yourself to overcome this trial. Nobody feel no fear of making first step forward. I occasionally feel like making it through the day from force of habit peacefully. But I always tell myself no move will bring me no future and no dream.
You may sometimes think the idea you came up with is not as worthwhile as implemented but remember, realizing your idea is more valuable than taking too much to improve your idea without implementing your idea. If you have no idea you can manage to come up with new idea after you start moving.
Do not be so smart
When you attend a class or seminar to learn something you can find some of attendees taking a very center seat in the front row, who are not almost honor students. Those students are always afraid of taking mistake so they don't want to be picked on as much as possible. Of corse if they don't understand the question, they only speak honestly "I don't understand" but they can't.I think it is much more important and meaningful to think the background of the question by reading the process of the story than you simply answer the question. When you understand this point, you grow very fast.
The growth curve of honor students rises to the right to some extent smoothly but on the boundary of a day, the curve goes down to the right bottom in one go. You can find this situation in your office when you look at excellent worker. They do their task given by company perfectly but they feel it no challenging about starting new and unprecedented project to pave the way for new value for the company so no-challenge spirit and perfectionism leads to a tragedy of layoff all of sudden even though they get promotion for the post of a manager because no failure means no outstanding results therefore they have no presence for the company.
On the other hand, a conceited worker repeats failure one after another by suggesting extraordinary projects that noboday come up with. Of course, he is unlikely to win the promotion and is likely to be fired but his growth curve will go up in one go at a point.
He will probable open up his own business or an influential person in the industry may attract an attention to his outstanding project. When you exceed a certain number of failure and trial you will get evolved.
You can exceed the ability of excellent men who cannot get over a line with fear of failure if you overcome a thousands of failure and trial which sometimes lets you down. People who have experienced failure are very strong when facing at any troubles and problems. Do not afraid of making mistakes.
Volunteer as a leader
Do you trust your boss?Do you think he is an armchair theorist?
A leader needs to burden every kind of responsibilities. If a team heads for wrong direction a leader must correct the way.
If there is some bad trouble around you, you need to have courage to takes the initiative by saying "I am the respossible person". If you want to pursue the lifestyle of behaving freely as you like every time no matter how old you get you should gather as much popularity and trust from the community you belong to as people allow you to behave so. The shortcut to win this lifestyle is to be a leader. A person behaving willfully without having any responsibilities and popularity is just a kid who haven't become mentally independent.
Very few Japanese students can grow an ability of receiving responsibilities with unusual initiative because of Japanese education system. If you volunteer to be a leader you will be grateful and grow your confidence strongly.
Narrow down the concepts
99% people don't understand a mission of their life. They go to work and school with their dull brain being still half asleep and do one thing after another aimlessly during daytime and go to bed peacefully. In the next morning their boring routine life starts again which is totally the same as yesterday's.99% people don't have core of their lives that they want to achieve something interesting to them or have some concepts or themes about a way of life like "I cannot help loving to do this thing. This is my lifework. I'm as crazy about doing this all the time as I forget sleeping. " so 99% people spend their times without feeling any missions of their lives.
Just write up your concept on a paper now. Bring up something to write on and write with at right this moment and list up everything you want to do. You must write these things as seriously as is able to realize everything you liste up.
Don't you pretend to enjoy working do you? You just recall your memory and find a mission that you can be really absorbed into by retracing the experience of your youth. At the moment you decide your concept and have a stable core, you can take control of your life.
Steal an idea
People's behavioral pattern and way of thinking have individually different habit. The greate person you repect is acutally the same human with you. If you pay your attention to the people who keep making very good results and have popularity there should be a clue or a sheed to rise your growth speed. All you have to do is just steal it and handle it anyhow.Why are there a lot of people who couldn't change their lives although they could find many hints from self-improvements boos in book stores? Because nobody will make the most of the knowhow in practical life even if a great man thought out the solution of people's mission systematically and left tons of hints to be rich.
An answer paper which is not blank but answered all question is prepared in front of you. You know what you should do if you look at this paper. Steal it and simply practice it.
Thinking out Ideas is also the same thing. You no longer come up with any idea? Give me a break. Please don't make me laugh. Are you the smartest person who open up new market with very innovative idea that nobody are aware of? Are you really sure you think that way? If you manage to come up with new idea which you think is wonderfully innovative with full confidence you should keep in mind that there are at least 1000 people who have the same idea and think like you.
When you see what happens around you objectively you can find someone who has already flourished in the industry you want to participate in with the idea which is closed to what you thought out. You can steal the idea and create originality and your own value by making the most of the idea.
An idea is no longer create from scratch but is combination of several existing ideas.
People always look at your position.
people's evaluation to you comes to be different depending on the position you gain. When you propose a plan and idea if you were fresh employee without any outstanding results your boss might show disapproval or start finding fault with that plan however if you were one of the officer of the headquarter the plan is smoothly circulated around the company for approval. Nobody will criticize the plan but clap their hand to it even if your plan is totally the same thing with the executive's .Generally people will not look at your offer and plan you propose when your position is very week in the community you belong to. So you would better be criticized your plan like "That's impossible. it is impractical" as much as possible at now. If you get promotion and your position becomes influential year after year people admire your plan wonderful and innovative.
In the world of art, pictures which are more like child's graffiti are transacted at incredible prices. If people who real knowledge and deep insight about art they understand the difference but almost all the people are in ignorance. Your plan also might have probably much more valuable than you expect.
Ideas of genius were created into heated criticism.